When I was growing up Decoration Day was all about the parade and Dad grilling chicken. I was 15 when the name changed to Memorial Day and 20 when it was moved from May 30 to the last Monday in May. And this year it’s on the 30th!
Five years after I got married and moved away from my home town, my young family moved back. The home we bought was on the street where the parade formed. What fun! We got to watch it all from our front porch. Or walk up and down the street talking to the people getting ready. My daughter rode her bike in the parade one year. Only one. Like mother – like daughter. I only rode once, too.
Here’s a little glimpse of our parade. There’s much more to it than just the band and the kids. There are, of course, the veterans, Boy Scouts, Girl Scouts, politicians (yes even in our tiny town), fire trucks, tractors (we are a farming community after all) and horses. There’s more, too, but you get the idea. It’s not real fancy, but it’s REAL. And we love it!
That’s just the fun side to Memorial Day but there is a more serious side. As you know, this blog recognizes our heroes in uniform every Wednesday. I’m very proud to honor these men and women and to say ‘Thank you. I will always remember what you’ve given to serve our country and keep us safe and free.’
I decided to find out a little bit about Memorial Day to share with you. Rather than rewrite it all ‘in my own words’ I decided to quote directly from http://www.usmemorialday.org/backgrnd.html
Memorial Day, originally called Decoration Day, is a day of remembrance for those who have died in our nation's service. There are many stories as to its actual beginnings, with over two dozen cities and towns laying claim to being the birthplace of Memorial Day. There is also evidence that organized women's groups in the South were decorating graves before the end of the Civil War: a hymn published in 1867, "Kneel Where Our Loves are Sleeping" by Nella L. Sweet carried the dedication "To The Ladies of the South who are Decorating the Graves of the Confederate Dead" (Source: Duke University's Historic American Sheet Music, 1850-1920). While Waterloo N.Y. was officially declared the birthplace of Memorial Day by President Lyndon Johnson in May 1966, it's difficult to prove conclusively the origins of the day. It is more likely that it had many separate beginnings; each of those towns and every planned or spontaneous gathering of people to honor the war dead in the 1860's tapped into the general human need to honor our dead, each contributed honorably to the growing movement that culminated in Gen Logan giving his official proclamation in 1868. It is not important who was the very first, what is important is that Memorial Day was established. Memorial Day is not about division. It is about reconciliation; it is about coming together to honor those who gave their all.
Memorial Day was officially proclaimed on 5 May 1868 by General John Logan, national commander of the Grand Army of the Republic, in his General Order No. 11, and was first observed on 30 May 1868, when flowers were placed on the graves of Union and Confederate soldiers at Arlington National Cemetery. The first state to officially recognize the holiday was New York in 1873. By 1890 it was recognized by all of the northern states. The South refused to acknowledge the day, honoring their dead on separate days until after World War I (when the holiday changed from honoring just those who died fighting in the Civil War to honoring Americans who died fighting in any war). It is now celebrated in almost every State on the last Monday in May (passed by Congress with the National Holiday Act of 1971 (P.L. 90 - 363) to ensure a three day weekend for Federal holidays), though several southern states have an additional separate day for honoring the Confederate war dead: January 19 in Texas, April 26 in Alabama, Florida, Georgia, and Mississippi; May 10 in South Carolina; and June 3 (Jefferson Davis' birthday) in Louisiana and Tennessee.
If you celebrate Memorial Day, I hope you take some time to remember those who have served so valiantly for us. Then have a wonderful time with family and friends. If you live outside the US and do not have this holiday, I hope you’ll take a moment to remember the men and women who have given their all for you and your country.
Happy Memorial Day!
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